Don't ! Networking and Social Media

Adam Payne • 2 March 2020

Building Genuine Business Connections:
It's Time to Talk, Not Post!

Networking - a powerful tool for building connections and creating business opportunities. For business owners and leaders, the art of networking has changed dramatically over the past few years. The rise of social media platforms has greatly impacted how we network, often detracting from the quality of face-to-face interactions. Rather than sincerely engaging with those in front of us, we've become addicted to our screens, prioritising notifications, and online posts above all else. However, these digital distractions may be limiting our ability to forge genuine relationships and hindering business growth. It's time to change our ways and rediscover the power of conversation.

The Obsession with Social Media

There's no denying that the world of business has been transformed by social media. Platforms like LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook have revolutionised the ways we connect, network, and market our businesses. However, the allure of social media can sometimes be overpowering, leading us to prioritise it above real-life engagements. Rather than focusing on the person standing in front of us, we can't help but obsessively check for likes, comments, or shares. Unfortunately, this behaviour detracts from the quality of our in-person interactions and weakens our ability to forge valuable connections.

The Case of Interrupted Conversations

Picture this scenario: you're at a networking event, deep in conversation with a like-minded professional, when suddenly, they pull out their phone, cutting you off mid-flow to post a selfie or respond to a notification. Not only is this jarring and rude, but it also damages any rapport or trust you may have built with that individual. It's clear that an addiction to our online presence can directly hinder our ability to create lasting relationships and collaborations.


Such behaviour can also have a negative impact on your business image. By ignoring or interrupting the person in front of you, you could be seen as unprofessional, inconsiderate, and ultimately, less trustworthy. This may lead potential collaborators or clients to seek connections elsewhere, resulting in missed opportunities and stunted growth for your business.

The Power of Manners in Business Interactions

In the realm of business, manners go a long way in making a strong impression and creating a solid foundation for lasting connections. Respecting the person, you are interacting with, giving them your undivided attention, and allowing them to express themselves without interruption are just some examples of how common courtesy can go a long way in fostering better relationships. These simple acts portray a positive image of your business and demonstrate that you value and respect those you work with.

The Urgent Need for Change

In light of this new awareness, it's crucial for business professionals to make a conscious effort to limit their need to be constantly connected online. In place of constantly checking social media, we should aim to give our full attention to the person in front of us during networking events, meetings, or casual conversations.


To manage these digital distractions, try implementing the following strategies:


  1. Set boundaries: Create specific time slots for checking social media accounts throughout your workday so that you're not constantly defaulting to your phone on autopilot whenever you have a free moment.
  2. Turn off non-essential notifications: Silence any irrelevant notifications during networking events or meetings so that you're less tempted to pick up your phone and respond.
  3. Put your phone on silent or in a bag: Physically placing your phone in a bag or out of sight can help reduce the temptation to check it constantly.
  4. Practice mindfulness: Make a conscious effort to be present in the moment, giving your full attention to those that you are talking to.


Taking control of these distractions allows you to dedicate the necessary time and energy to create real connections and focus on meaningful conversations with your fellow professionals.

The Impact of Meaningful Conversations

By investing time in genuine conversations, we create stronger, more valuable business connections. Additionally, these interactions can lead to the discovery of new opportunities, collaborations, and ideas. Taking the time to get to know the person in front of us - their struggles, successes, goals, and passions - fosters a deeper connection that can be incredibly beneficial in the long run. These meaningful conversations allow us to learn from one another, exchange ideas, and ultimately, grow our businesses.



Takeaway


Tt's more important than ever to prioritise genuine human connections over the fleeting rush of notifications and online interactions. By putting away our devices and focusing on meaningful conversations, we can build stronger relationships, create new opportunities, and foster more satisfying professional networks. So, the next time you find yourself in a professional setting, leave your phone in your pocket and open your mouth and talk - because, after all, there's more to networking than just a quick post on social media!


Do also check out our podcast where we talk all things "Networking Pros and Cons"

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